Getting Unstuck Is Easy, You Are The One Who Is Making It Difficult
Yes you read this article title correctly, and yes I mean every
single word of it. Feeling stuck in a rut is no laughing matter, I've
been there myself so I know what I am talking about. The single biggest
problem with feeling stuck in a rut is the fact that you make such a big
deal of feeling stuck in a rut, that it seems almost impossible for you
to get unstuck.
Are you guilty of making the situation bigger than it really is, are you guilty of turning a drama into a crisis, are you blowing your situation out of all proportion? If you are guilty of these crimes there is no need to worry, as a large majority of people are guilty of doing the exact same thing as you.
Getting unstuck isn't as difficult as people make out it is, however when you complain that you are stuck in a rut, and you complain to all and sundry that it is just so difficult to get unstuck from your current situation, what you are REALLY doing is setting the scene for staying exactly where you are, stuck in your rut.
Can you imagine telling anyone that would listen, that you are stuck in a rut, and that it is relatively easy for anyone to get unstuck? No you cannot, because it would make you look like a complete and utter idiot wouldn't it?
If you went around telling everyone how easy it was to get unstuck, you would have absolutely no excuse for remaining stuck in your current situation would you?
Making a problem infinitely bigger than it really is, makes it far too easy for you to remain stuck in your current situation. It makes it easy for you to wheel out the excuses that you have been practising for so long, it makes it easy for you to shirk the responsibility rather than taking responsibility for your current predicament.
You are the one who has been blowing your current situation out of all proportion, you are the one who is making your situation more difficult than it actually is, so it stands to reason that you are the only person who can get yourself unstuck.
Remember, getting unstuck is easy, you are the one who is making it difficult.
Are you guilty of making the situation bigger than it really is, are you guilty of turning a drama into a crisis, are you blowing your situation out of all proportion? If you are guilty of these crimes there is no need to worry, as a large majority of people are guilty of doing the exact same thing as you.
Getting unstuck isn't as difficult as people make out it is, however when you complain that you are stuck in a rut, and you complain to all and sundry that it is just so difficult to get unstuck from your current situation, what you are REALLY doing is setting the scene for staying exactly where you are, stuck in your rut.
Can you imagine telling anyone that would listen, that you are stuck in a rut, and that it is relatively easy for anyone to get unstuck? No you cannot, because it would make you look like a complete and utter idiot wouldn't it?
If you went around telling everyone how easy it was to get unstuck, you would have absolutely no excuse for remaining stuck in your current situation would you?
Making a problem infinitely bigger than it really is, makes it far too easy for you to remain stuck in your current situation. It makes it easy for you to wheel out the excuses that you have been practising for so long, it makes it easy for you to shirk the responsibility rather than taking responsibility for your current predicament.
You are the one who has been blowing your current situation out of all proportion, you are the one who is making your situation more difficult than it actually is, so it stands to reason that you are the only person who can get yourself unstuck.
Remember, getting unstuck is easy, you are the one who is making it difficult.
Sean is a Certified Professional Personal Development Coach, NLP Master Practitioner and published Author.
By Sean M Mantack
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By Sean M Mantack
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